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• Sex & the City & the Quarantine

  Posted: February 15, 2021

  Categories: Dating , Masturbation , Pleasure , Tips , Sex Ed , Relationships , Sex , Sexuality
  

  Sex & the City & the Quarantine: What We’ve Learned About Ourselves in Isolation

  It’s now January 2021, and, just like that, the United States has been in some semblance of quarantine for almost a year now. Workplaces have gone remote, masks have become a trendy fashion statement, class is now in session via Zoom, and the landscape surrounding sex and dating has changed dramatically. I couldn’t help but wonder - during a year in isolation, how have we grown in our relationships with our partners and with ourselves? How have we gotten acclimated to the “new normal” in ways we might not have even noticed in regards to our dating and sex lives? How have we become closer with our bodies and ourselves during this time of forced solitude?

  Here are a few of the lessons we’ve learned about ourselves and our bodies (and our libidos) during a year-long quarantine period:

  ● The saying “absence makes the heart grow fonder” couldn’t be more

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• Sexual Anxiety: We Shall Overcum!

  Posted: December 22, 2020

  Categories: Dating , Pleasure , Tips , Sex Ed , Relationships , Sex , Sexuality
  

   

  Lots of people have experienced sexual anxiety. Feeling anxious about our sex skills is totally normal, but it can really ruin a horny moment when it happens more than not

  I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and I’ve learned in therapy that anxiety is a future-oriented emotion. The majority of my anxiety comes from future-tripping – what if they have a terrible time? Maybe they think I’m too loose! I forgot to shave. They’re gonna leave me!

  Because of these anxious thoughts, I try to stay present when it comes to sex and not focus on a particular outcome. What can I say? I wasn’t born knowing how to bang.

  Sexual anxiety is something that people of all ages deal with, even if they consider themselves a sexual dynamo. Sometimes, this type of anxiety can be situational and pop up because of a new sexual encounter. Other people might find it hard to have great sex on a regular basis because they have an anxiety disorder. Oh hello!

   

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• How Streaming Services Are Starting TV Sex Revolution

  Posted: November 16, 2020

  Categories: Dating , Interview , Masturbation , Tips , Sex Ed , Relationships , LGBTQ , Sex , Sexuality , Fun Stuff
  

  Tension and Intention:

  How Streaming Services and Intimacy Coordinators Are Changing The Sex We See on TV

  Long before America had access to the internet, online porn, and OnlyFans, it focused its censorship efforts on everything except gratuitous violence.

  Mainstream television, under pressure from various conservative organizations and lobbyists, held pretty fast to the notion that protecting a woman from her sexuality extended to suggestions of just-starting or just-finished coitus, and hiding everything below her collar bone under a suspiciously L-shaped bed sheet. If people were having wild, unadulterated sex they certainly didn’t want their audiences knowing about it. While we are still behind in showing full-spectrum representation and honest depictions of sex and sexuality on television, streaming services have begun to open the gates. Season 2

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