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• Rise of The Sexual Goddess: A Guide to Understanding and Embracing Your Yoni

  Posted: October 15, 2020

  Categories: Dating , Pleasure , Tips , Sex Ed , Relationships , Sex , Sexuality
  

  When's the last time you touched your vagina? And I mean really touched her? To point where you know every flap, dip, and curve in her? How about the last time you touched your breasts? Was it in a way that made you feel empowered? Like a queen? Like a goddess? If you've never felt this way while caressing your temple, first of all, yes it is possible. And second, it isn't your fault.

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• Don’t Touch My Hair...Unless I Tell You To

  Posted: September 23, 2020

  Categories: Dating , Pleasure , Tips , Sex Ed , Relationships , Sex , Sexuality
  

  Hey--is my mic on? Good; I have a few things to get off my chest. To the surprise of literally no one, 2020 started ugly and it only got uglier. It’s been more than rough for everyone. This year didn’t stop at a global health pandemic and losing some of our most beloved icons; it threw in an extra helping of crazy ahhh weather too. It’s been ghastly, but like sex, life requires patience. Let’s all collectively breathe and agree to look at this from a different angle.

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• Why Black Sex Work is Essential Work

  Posted: July 15, 2020

  Categories: Interview , Sex Ed , Sex , Sexuality
  

  If sex work is indeed “the world’s oldest profession”, and the end goal of that work is 100% customer satisfaction, then sex work is also the world’s oldest essential work. It makes little sense that such hostility and shame toward sex work and sex workers still exists, especially towards Black female sex workers.

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• 10 Sex Tips for Men

  Posted: June 30, 2020

  Categories: Sex Ed , Sex , Sexuality , Sex Toys , Fun Stuff
  

  There can be a lot of discrepancy between what men think women want in the bedroom and what they really want. You don’t necessarily have to go full Christian Grey, but you also don’t need to wait for an especially romantic occasion to have a seriously orgasmic time. Make things memorable and let the following tips be your guide.

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• Radical Self-Care

  Posted: June 16, 2020

  Categories: Personal Story , Tips , Self Care
  

  To take care of others, you must first take care of yourself. But what does "self-care" look like in the face of protest and social unrest? Erika E. Wade shares her personal story of how self-care has transformed from an indulgent buzz word into something more meaningful during the Black Lives Matter global uprisings of 2020.

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• I’m 28 and Just Learned What a Real Orgasm Is

  Posted: May 12, 2020

  Categories: Dating , Masturbation , Masturbation Month , Personal Story , Pleasure , Tips , Sex Ed , Relationships , Self Care , Sex , Sexuality , Sex Toys , Vibrators
  

  By Erika E. Wade

  This is gonna be sad, but I believe I’m having a crisis. What if sex hasn’t led to orgasms for me in the past. What if I was so good at faking it, I fooled myself? At this age, and with the amount of sex toys I have, I’m realizing having an orgasm during sex is, well, hard. Now I know what my Big O feels like, I’m going for it at all costs. Maybe you can too.

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