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Sex, Pro Tips

Sex Toys 101: The Ultimate Guide

To a new user, the world of sex toys can be a bit confusing; there's just such an array of options available. On top of the sheer selection of toys availble, there's so much more to consider: From making secure purchases online to simply bridging the topic with a partner. Hopefully, this guide can give you some insight into the world of sex toys in all of its facets. No need to blush or feel anxious - sex toys can enliven your sexual experience alone as well as free you from falling into a routine when it comes to partnered sex. So let's get a little kinky and take a walk on a the more intimate side of sex for a moment. Keep up, you don't want to get left behind for this lesson!

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7 Ways to Keep Things Hot While You’re Apart

We’ve all heard the saying “absence makes the heart grow fonder” and anyone that’s ever been in a long-distance relationship or otherwise had to spend much time away from their partner knows it’s true. However, missing each other and looking forward to the day you’re reunited is easy.  Managing to keep things exciting, romantic, connected, and hot in the meantime is where the challenge lies. The key to success here is creativity, thoughtfulness, and consistency. The following are just a few fantastic ideas to get you started.

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“He’s Jealous of My Vibrator”: What to Do and How to Deal

No woman that’s grateful for the invention of the vibrator needs to be told why she loves hers. Vibrators have allowed millions of women to better get to know their bodies and learn how to bring themselves to orgasm. Knowledge like that doesn’t just help us learn to love and understand our own bodies either. It helps us help you show us a good time during partnered sex as well. That said, there are two types of guys out there in the world. Some are supportive and maybe even excited to find out their girlfriend or wife owns and uses a vibrator. Others feel intimidated, jealous, or even angry. If your guy is the latter, we’re here to help. We’ll go over why he feels the way he does, as well as cover what you can do about it.

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Pro Tips, Interview

In Conversation: Mille, A Sex Toy Reviewer

We recently had the pleasure to sit down with Mille, a toy reviewer at one of our favorite Scandinavian retailers WinkWink. We discussed her unique career in the industry, the secrets to finding the perfect toy, the importance of body-safe materials and what she believes the future holds for love toys.Read More

Sex, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips

Playing with Matches: Online vs. Offline Dating

by Amara Purlle

It's a meat market out there. I grew up in an analog world. Achieving any genuine romantic connection through an app, I scoffed, would yield superficial results at best. On the other hand, with a lot of online dating, it’s easy enough to tell who’s looking for a random hook-up, who wants someone to nest with, and who’s open to grabbing a drink and seeing if anything progresses without any string-like attachments. Thus raiseth the questions: What works for you? What is your end goal? Is boredom reason enough to try and connect with someone? Which method is the most effective use of your time and energy?

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Sex, Pleasure, Pro Tips

A Little to the Left: Self-Care through Orgasm

by Amara Purlle

What are our lives roughly 70% of the time, if not Chaotic? Such is the plight of the modern woman. Our seemingly Sisyphean attempts at maintaining a work/life balance might have us sitting in a combusting kitchen like the “This is Fine” dog. We juggle so many things, and we usually find ways to restore the expended energy so we can continue juggling day after day. But we don’t always tend to the energy that needs restoring the most. Set aside all things on the daily battlefront for a second, and let’s talk about sex. Are you having it? Is it good? Can it be better? More specifically, let’s talk about the Big O—how are your Orgasms?

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The Best is Yet to Come: New Year, New Feels, and a Fresh Start at B Swish

By Jess & Carol at B Swish

Earlier this year, we celebrated our 10th anniversary with the intimate massager that started it all for us: the B Cute Classic Limited Edition. For ten years, we have been standing by our original philosophy to provide body-safe, pleasure delivering, intimate massagers with modern designs to women. The pleasure product industry has changed a lot in that decade, but how has that affected our mission here at B Swish? The answer today is the same as it was ten years ago: Deliver more orgasms! It's how we serve up those O's that's changing.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips

The ABCs of 1-2-Threesome: A Navigation Guide for the Relation-shipped

By Jess at B Swish

Sharing is Caring . . . or, at least that's what they taught us as kindergarteners. For some of us, this is still true well into adulthood as we explore our pleasure. Sex with multiple partners can be an enticing erotic daydream, but unlike our fantasies, a satisfying threesome usually doesn't just spontaneously happen. It's not easy to get the cosmos to align for a perfect private pleasure party. But! As we also learn as youngsters: the greatest satisfaction always follows a hard day's work.

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Sex, Pleasure, Pro Tips, Sex Toys

Started From the Bottom: A Beginner's Guide to Anal Sex

By Amara Purlle

Yes, women are into it. No, it’s not just a male-on-male pastime. Yes, heterosexual men are doing it, too. Yes, it’s a completely normal, celebrated and valid way to achieve orgasm. So, let’s do this! Let’s go deep and continue to un-taboo anal sex. Because, as previous columnists have said: It’s [insert decade here]. Time to get real.

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Sex, Pleasure, Pro Tips

P Marks the Spot: Discover Your Prostate Orgasm

By Colt Chapman

Allowing yourself to be penetrated in and of itself can be scary because it makes you so vulnerable. This applies to men, women and everyone in between. When you let something foreign inside of your body, you’re essentially exposing yourself. Owning vulnerability, though, is often noted in other aspects of life as being a key to true happiness. Breaking sexual barriers is no different. For this post, we welcome Colt Chapman as he discusses prostate pleasure: who’s doing it, what it feels like, how to do it and why you should try it out (if you have a prostate, that is).

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Sex, Pleasure, Pro Tips

Plan the Perfect Date Night... With Yourself

By Chelsea Steiner

As adults, most of us have honed our jilling-off skills to a science: we know what we like and how to reach the finish line without a second thought. But if your routine has gotten stale, or you’re just looking to treat yourself, we’ve got some tips for turning your typical self-pleasure session into an epic night for one. Here are our top tips for planning the perfect date night…with yourself.

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Sex, Relationships, Pro Tips, Self Care

Why Everyone Should Have a "Yes No Maybe" List

By Gabriela Herstik

No matter your relationship status, one thing still holds true; you have a right to pleasure. Scream it from the rooftops because it’s true. You have a right to know what feels good for you, you have a right to know what sets your soul aflame, you have a right to know what you’re into, and you have the right to claim it. But the reverse is also true; you have a right to know what you don’t like, you have a right to have boundaries, and you have the right to say no, always. A “yes, no, maybe” list is a list of things you’re into, some things you’re willing to try and things you’re absolutely not willing to try. This isn’t a document set in stone, instead, it’s something that can help you discover what turns you on, while also helping inspire your love and sex life.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Pro Tips

Talk Dirty to Me: Communication Guide For Those Shy Under the Sheets

By Shelley

No matter how shy you or your partner may be, everyone can increase their sexual experience with communication. Here's a practical guide on to how to talk dirty with confidence, get the pleasure you’re craving, and encourage your partner to keep the convo going!

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Pro Tips, Sex Toys

Feeling Edgy

By Haley DePass

You might have come across the term, “edging” while discussing your sex life, or just researching new ways to enjoy sex. But what is it? Edging is the practice of being brought to the brink, or edge, of orgasm and then stopping the sexual simulation so that you don’t finish. A lot of folks might wonder why the hell someone wouldn’t want to orgasm, so in this post, Haley DePass lets you in on the how, when, who, what, why (and why not) of living on the edge of the Big-O.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships

Black Girls Masturbate

By Erika E. Wade


Growing up black in America is tough, especially when everyone but your own cultural group tells you how to do it. Apparently, it’s even more taboo for black women to touch themselves. Well, I’m Erika. I’m a black woman from Alabama, and I touch myself. And it feels really good.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips, Sex Toys

An Intro to Lesbian Sex

By Jessica Buck


Provided consent is in place, taking your intimacy with someone to the next level means opening up a vulnerability that coincides with pleasure. We learn how to navigate this vulnerability with practice, but your first few times can be awkward and confusing, especially if you've received little to no true education on the physical and emotional logistics of "how to have sex." Let’s change that with a walk through of the basics of lesbian sex, because vulva on vulva action is worth the deep dive and frankly, it's the tits (pun intended).

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