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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Pro Tips, Self Care

How I Learned to Love Lube

By Aimee Murillo


I resisted lube for the longest time but I eventually decided to experiment. I ended up ultimately loving lube and this is what I learned in the process... plus some helpful tips on getting acquainted with the do's and don'ts of lube.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips, Self Care

Communication Breakdown: How to Ask for What Your Want in Bed

By Gabriela Herstik


You deserve to have an abundantly rich sex life. But to get that, it's vital that you're able to ask for what you want in bed. This can be really difficult — it means releasing sexual shame, being vulnerable with your partner, and that you have to know what you’re into. Here's Gabriela Herstik on how, exactly, we can effectively communicate what we want in bed, and why this is so important for our pleasure and sense of sexual security.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Pro Tips

Elevate your Sex with Mindfulness

By Krystyn Lambert


Many of us have struggled with staying present during intercourse, but when we are able to actively find ourselves in the moment, the enhancement is staggering. How can we train our brains to turn on and tune in to more mindful sex? Here's Krystyn Lambert with six practical techniques!

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Pro Tips

Cannabis and Sex

By Amara Purlle


Canna-curious? Have you heard the hype that combining cannabis with sex can be a potentially mind-opening journey? Well it’s hyped for a reason! At the time of publication, 33 American states have legalized medical marijuana, and ten of those states have legalized recreational marijuana use. Because of this, we're now incredibly spoilt for choice. And, if you’re in LA like us, it’s easy to become overwhelmed with all your options. In an effort to make it slightly less daunting, Amara Purlle humbly offers her own recommendations to guide you into next-level sexy times.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Masturbation Month, Pro Tips, Self Care, Sex Toys

What I Learned from Becoming My Own Lover

By Gabriela Herstik


✨Masturbation Month Special✨

If there’s one thing that I learned about sex in 2018, it’s that you’re responsible for your own pleasure. And, that you’re the best lover you’ll ever have. When I decided to enter into a relationship with myself, I put my own pleasure as priority. My solo sex sessions turned into rituals and my exploration of the erotic, BDSM and sex took a forefront in my life. When I became my own lover, I decided to figure out how to give myself the love I wanted, instead of looking for it outside of myself. This is what I learned, and why everyone should embark on a journey of intentional self-relationship.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips

Masturbation 2.0: Everything You Need to Know about Mutual Masturbation

By Kristie Overstreet Ph.D., LPCC, CST


✨Masturbation Month Special✨

It’s still #masturbationmonth and we’re still celebrating everything there is to love about self-love! Planned right, it can be super-fun and comes along with tons of health benefits, basically has no negative impact… and you don’t just have to do it alone! It’s actually one of the hottest sexual activities you can do with your partner to increase your intimacy. Think of it as Masturbation 2.0.

For this post, we asked Dr. Kristie Overstreet to answer all your questions about going solo… together.

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Sex, Pleasure, Esoterica, Masturbation Month, Pro Tips, Self Care, Sex Toys

Divine Pleasure - What is Tantra & How to Curate a Solo-Practice

By Ashley Inman


✨Masturbation Month Special✨

Tantra has broken more than ever before into our contemporary lexicon with the prominence of resources like Barbara Carrellas’s Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century. It’s becoming less of a weird sound bite from Sting and being understood (and accepted) more a for what it is: a beautiful, personal exploration, an act of shared magick between partners. One of the best, most succinct explanations of tantra I’ve heard is from a mainstream health information outlet: “Tantra is a pleasure-centric practice that encourages self-exploration and mindfulness. It’s similar to meditation and can have benefits both in and out of the bedroom.”

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Masturbation Month, Pro Tips, Self Care, Sex Toys

9 Ways to Make Your Masturbation Session More Magical

By Gabriela Herstik


✨Masturbation Month Special✨

Masturbation is the best; it feels good, it’s good for you, and you can even use your orgasms to cast spells. What’s not to love? But like lovers, there’s an endless possibility of ways and reasons you may want to do or not do something a certain way. Sometimes you may want to do you quick and dirty. That’s hot. But sometimes you may wish to slow it down and add some meaning and intention to your self-love session. Also hot! And rather witchy, if we do say so ourselves. Sex magick, or raising sexual energy/orgasm to send to a desired purpose or intention, has been used by yogis, Pagans, occultists and pervs worldwide as a way to harness energy, heal, honor, transcend and create. Even if we’re not going to perform a whole sex magick ritual, we can take cues from these esoteric practices that offer us wisdom for connecting more deeply with our bodies. Inspired by erotic rituals, we’ve rounded up 9 ways to make your next masturbation session more magical.

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Sex, Pleasure, Pro Tips, Self Care

Me, Myself & I: Celebrating Masturbation Month

By Amara Purlle


✨Masturbation Month Special✨

It’s officially Masturbation Month! While we in the pleasure industry tend to celebrate masturbation on the daily, we also recognize that visibly dedicating an entire month to the topic serves as a necessary reminder that self-pleasure can be an integral and accessible aspect of everyone’s sexuality. For this post, we asked Amara Purlle explore rapidly changing attitudes towards self-love and why it’s still so important to celebrate going solo.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships

Mortified: My Mother Found My Vibrator and I’m Still Embarrassed 10 Years Later

By Jessica Buck

 

This is a story about a girl and her vibrator. Together, they are the two leading ladies in an embarrassing shit show.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Pro Tips, Self Care

Roleplay as Empowerment: How to Introduce Characters into Your Sex Life

by Ashley Inman

“Roleplay” is a word that evokes different things for different people, bringing to mind everything from elegant elves to naughty nurses. Roleplaying in your sex life is a way to celebrate and explore titillating and exciting aspects of your psyche which can tie deeply, and sometimes inexplicably, to those tingly feelings of arousal we all live for. The real trick is to be able to identify what exactly turns you on. At face value this question probably seems straightforward. But writing from experience, it's tough to get a leg up when first exploring sexual roleplay. Finding your fantasy ultimately means slipping into another skin, which gives you permission to indulge your curiosity and desire.

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Sex, Pleasure, Pro Tips, Self Care, Sex Toys

I Tried a Wand Vibrator for the First Time and This is What Happened

By Gabriela Herstik

I’ve used plenty of sex toys in my day, but I have managed to go nearly 25 years without ever trying a wand style vibrator. As someone who loves an orgasm, I just couldn’t let myself pass up the opportunity to try one for myself. And when I realized B Swish has a wand style vibe for just $40, there was no way I couldn’t try it. So, I put it to the test and all I can say is…wow..

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Sex, Pleasure, Pro Tips, Self Care

Grocery Aisle Sex

By Jordana Lipsitz

Going to the grocery store can be quite the snore. Mindlessly pushing a cart down aisle after aisle wondering, “What is life even? What is the meaning? Do I really need this much Greek yogurt?” Luckily, there can be more to the mundane experience of feeding yourself. In fact, there are a whole lot of sneaky fruit and veggie tips to perk up your sex life. The more natural the better! Grocery shopping has never been sexier. Jordana Lipsitz takes you on a grocery aisle odyssey, touring the tastiest products on this earth that can zest up your sex life. Truly a recipe for delight.

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Sex, Pleasure, Pro Tips, Self Care, Sex Toys

I Tried THC Lube for the First Time and This is What Happened

By Jessica Buck

Ever since I bought my first vibrator, I've been interested in trying all the variations of pleasure possible with masturbation. Finding the right vibrator was an adventure, so when a friend suggested I add THC lube to the mix, I was intrigued. I've heard stories about people using this type of lube during intercourse, as well as solo, but it never truly sparked my interest enough to purchase on my own. That is, until a friend gave me a sample and changed my life.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Pro Tips, Sex Toys, Gift Guide

5 Reasons to Celebrate Valentine's Day: The Friends with Batteries Gift Guide

By Ashley Inman

Valentine’s Day is upon us, girls, boys, and everyone in between. As usual, the greeting card companies want us to celebrate through the lens of romantic love. That’s cute. We love couples! Some of us are in couples (or more!) and some of us are stoked to be single. There are so many ways to love and be loved in the world, so why not take the month of February as an invitation to make as much love as possible? Love for yourself, your friends, your lovers—whoever should come your way! Whether you plan to celebrate with your friend-with-benefits or your BFF, or your friend-with-batteries, Ashley Inman has compiled some O-worthy options to help you spice up the Hallmark holiday!

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Pro Tips, Self Care, Sex Toys

Discovery Channels: Sex Toys and Personal Growth

By Amara Purlle

In the mainstream, the word “nurturing” is not typically associated with sex toys, but it’s a new year and a new year hopefully means you're also on a path toward discarding outdated notions, introducing healthy new notions that let you fully explore Next Phase you. It's 2019 and we should shop for erotic accoutrement like we shop for everything else. In this post, Amara Purlle gets frank about the possibility of learning about yourself through intimate personal device shopping.

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Sex, Pleasure, Gift Guide

12 Sex Positive Los Angeles Artists to Support: A Holiday Gift Guide

by Jordana Lipsitz

Holy cow. It’s been a HECK of a year. We might just all need a magical Christmas/Hanukah/Winter Solstice to counteract 345-ish days of existential depression and consistent dread. We’re talking thoughtful presents! We’re talking New Year’s Eve nookie! We’re talking eggnog and volunteering at community Christmas dinners and good will toward (wo)men. The whole chestnut, preferably roasting on an open fire.

For now, it’s time to focus on the *presents* portion of the season. If anything in this life is clear it’s that intention is important. With that in mind please, take a gander at this holiday gift guide assembled by Jordana Lipsitz featuring some of her favorite sex positive Los Angeles artists.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Pro Tips, Sex Toys, Gift Guide

The B Swish Holiday Gift Guide: Heat Things Up this Holiday Season!

by Ashley Inman

The holiday season is here already and whether you are hoping to make it onto Santa’s naughty list, craving an exciting exploration for the season, or just looking for something fun to play with as the creeping cold drives us further indoors then we have some suggestions for you.

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Sex, Pleasure, Esoterica, Pro Tips, Self Care, Sex Toys, Gift Guide

The Best Vibe for Your Zodiac Sign

By Gabriela Herstik

We get it; sometimes you just wanna get off. In our opinion, sex toys are the perfect way to amp up your sex life, adding some extra good vibes whether you’re going solo or with a partner. Vibrators are a vagina-owning persons’ best friend, but with so many delicious and delectable options out there, the question isn’t if to start but where? We’ve turned to the cosmos for a little sexy inspiration, to help match up each zodiac sign with a vibrator that is sure to blow them away. Read on for your match made in heaven.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Self Care, Sex Toys

A Beginner’s Guide to Being Sex Positive When You’re a Prude

By Jordana Lipsitz

Jordana Lipsitz wants to support her friends (and heck, even people she doesn’t know at all) in their zany sex adventures but she has a problem. And that problem is a visceral reaction to the thought of inserting anything, well, anywhere. Chalking it up to having been raised in a Protestant/Jewish household where the repression of the Protestant side was constantly at war with the easy-going attitude of her Jewish side, in this post Jordana Lipsitz shares her comedic journey into sex positivity.

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