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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating

Re-evaluating My Sexuality

By Jessica Buck

 

For as long as I can remember, I've found myself attracted to both men and women. When I was in school, there would be people that I felt gravitated to – first by their looks, like "wow, they are so pretty/cute, I want to get to know them." Then, it was their personality. Wanting to continue to get to know them and hope they thought I was as interesting/cool as I thought they were. At some point it would simply turn into a platonic friendship, mainly because I was young and didn't know what to do when you really liked someone – thinking it wasn't reciprocated – and thus starting a consistent cycle of suppressing feelings for fear of rejection.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating, Self Care, Sex Toys, Gift Guide

Unwrap Sexy: Gifts That Keep on Giving

By Aimee Murillo

 

Season’s greetings, y’all! It’s that wonderful time of the year again to don your gay apparel and start picking out gifts for your lover, partner, or closest kinky friends. If you’re stuck on ideas, we here at B Swish recommend pleasure products as a guaranteed treat for those who’ve been naughty or nice—hopefully both! But as there are so many products on the market, you may be wondering how to pare down the options and pick out something that will provide each of them a real endorphin-rush— and how do you do it if you’re on a budget?

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips

Asking for Consent is Absolutely Sexy

By Erika E. Wade

 

Why can asking for consent be so weird? In a lot of communities, it isn’t. In kink communities, consent conversations are as “normal” as fumbling with a condom wrapper in the dark. Why can’t we do that in mainstream society? It seems like consent requires a little more debate and disagreement for the rest of us, but it actually could be so easy. It's time to normalize talking about pleasure, and that includes boundaries. Keep it respectful. Keep it cute. Asking for consent is sexy too.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips, Sex Toys

Why You Should Incorporate Sex Toys into Partnered Sex

By Gabriela Herstik

 

Sex should be fun, and while they’re called sex “toys” for a reason, there is still unfortunately plenty of stigma surrounding sexuality and how we enjoy it; whether the stigma is around who we engage with sexually, what we like or how we like to express ourselves. The work of unlearning harmful narratives around shame never stops! And one of the myths that we must unlearn is that liking sex toys, and bringing them into the bedroom, means that you don’t like your partner, or don’t feel like they can satisfy you sexually. The stigma around sex toys in general is extremely harmful; especially when it inhibits you from enjoying yourself during sex. And while it may seem awkward to uncomfortable to ask a partner if you can bring in a vibrator or cock ring to the bedroom, introducing toys into your sex life could be spark you need to reinvigorate your relationship, bring you closer to your partner, or simply make the sex more exciting.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips, Self Care

Communication Breakdown: How to Ask for What Your Want in Bed

By Gabriela Herstik


You deserve to have an abundantly rich sex life. But to get that, it's vital that you're able to ask for what you want in bed. This can be really difficult — it means releasing sexual shame, being vulnerable with your partner, and that you have to know what you’re into. Here's Gabriela Herstik on how, exactly, we can effectively communicate what we want in bed, and why this is so important for our pleasure and sense of sexual security.

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Sex, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips

I was a Fuckboy Magnet

By Erika E. Wade


Sometimes your love life is a sitcom because you're actually a walking magnet for broken, emotionally unavailable, and non-committal partners. Or, sometimes you could secretly be giving off the vibes of a someone in need of a reminder of their own beauty and power. Here are some tips to help you get over him, and so into you.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips

Keep it Close: Surviving Long Distance Relationships

By Amara Purlle

Ahh, long distance relationships. LDRs...lovers daring romance...lengthy doting rituals...loooong dry-spell run.... In this post, Amara Purlle cast the net out to...the net...to see what her people’s more recent LDR experiences have been with Facetime in lieu of face-to-face time.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips

Masturbation 2.0: Everything You Need to Know about Mutual Masturbation

By Kristie Overstreet Ph.D., LPCC, CST


✨Masturbation Month Special✨

It’s still #masturbationmonth and we’re still celebrating everything there is to love about self-love! Planned right, it can be super-fun and comes along with tons of health benefits, basically has no negative impact… and you don’t just have to do it alone! It’s actually one of the hottest sexual activities you can do with your partner to increase your intimacy. Think of it as Masturbation 2.0.

For this post, we asked Dr. Kristie Overstreet to answer all your questions about going solo… together.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips

The ABCs of 1-2-Threesome: A Navigation Guide for the Relation-shipped

By Jess at B Swish

Sharing is Caring . . . or, at least that's what they taught us as kindergarteners. For some of us, this is still true well into adulthood as we explore our pleasure. Sex with multiple partners can be an enticing erotic daydream, but unlike our fantasies, a satisfying threesome usually doesn't just spontaneously happen. It's not easy to get the cosmos to align for a perfect private pleasure party. But! As we also learn as youngsters: the greatest satisfaction always follows a hard day's work.

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Sex, Pleasure, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips, Sex Toys, Gift Guide

Naughty but Oh, So Nice: Orgasmic Holiday Gift Ideas

by Jess & Carol at B Swish

'Tis the season to give, so why not gift some mind-blowing pleasure!
We've compiled a list of naughty gifts that will fill you and your lover with holiday cheer.

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Sex, Relationships, Dating, Pro Tips

Playing with Matches: Online vs. Offline Dating

by Amara Purlle

It's a meat market out there. I grew up in an analog world. Achieving any genuine romantic connection through an app, I scoffed, would yield superficial results at best. On the other hand, with a lot of online dating, it’s easy enough to tell who’s looking for a random hook-up, who wants someone to nest with, and who’s open to grabbing a drink and seeing if anything progresses without any string-like attachments. Thus raiseth the questions: What works for you? What is your end goal? Is boredom reason enough to try and connect with someone? Which method is the most effective use of your time and energy?

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