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The ABCs of 1-2-Threesome: A Navigation Guide for the Relation-shipped

Posted: February 14, 2018

Categories: Dating, Pleasure, Tips , Relationships, Sex

Author: Shelley B Swish

By Jess at B Swish

Sharing is Caring . . . or, at least that's what they taught us as kindergarteners. For some of us, this is still true well into adulthood as we explore our pleasure. Sex with multiple partners can be an enticing erotic daydream, but unlike our fantasies, a satisfying threesome usually doesn't just spontaneously happen. It's not easy to get the cosmos to align for a perfect private pleasure party. But! As we also learn as youngsters: the greatest satisfaction always follows a hard day's work.
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Affordably Giftable Vibes for Any Gal or Guy in Your Life (AKA You!)

Posted: February 01, 2018

Categories: Pleasure, Tips , Sex, Sex Toys

Tags: wand, valentines day, sexual wellness, self-pleasure, present, magic wand, holiday, erotic presents, curated, cock ring

Author: Jessica Buck

By Jess & Carol at B Swish

It's that time again. Whether you love Valentine's Day or hate it. Whether you're looking for the perfect gift to fire up the romance or you're an independent woman who doesn't need anyone to buy her gifts. Whether you're spoiling your bae or treating yo'self. Get inspired by our list of affordably giftable pleasure products that will still make you, your S.O. or your best friend feel special.
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From Truth to Power: Honesty and Orgasm

Posted: January 01, 2018

Categories: Pleasure, Tips , Relationships, Self Care, Sex, Sex Toys

Author: Amara Purlle

by Amara Purlle

In the business of sex and pleasure, it's traditional to put orgasm at the forefront as the sole objective of a sexual encounter. While orgasm is one of the most euphoric experiences, there's so much else that goes hand in hand with it along the way. At B Swish, we're in the business of sexual pleasure as a vehicle for confidence, empowerment, wellness, and satisfaction. Lately, this has us thinking a lot about honesty. Specifically, we’ve been wondering about how honesty is related to the experience of orgasm for women. For this post, we asked Amara Purlle to write about how getting stark naked with ourselves before anyone else could lead to not just stronger orgasm but also to stronger human connection.
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Naughty but Oh, So Nice: Orgasmic Holiday Gift Ideas

Posted: November 08, 2017

Categories: Gift Guide, Pleasure, Tips , Relationships, Sex, Sex Toys

Tags: wand, vibrator, traditional, suggestions, sexual wellness, sex positive, sex life, self-pleasure, remote control, rabbit, present, orgasm, mini, magic wand, list, kegel, holiday, erotic presents

Author: Shelley B Swish

by Jess & Carol at B Swish

'Tis the season to give, so why not gift some mind-blowing pleasure!
We've compiled a list of naughty gifts that will fill you and your lover with holiday cheer.
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A Little to the Left: Self-Care through Orgasm

Posted: October 27, 2017

Categories: Pleasure, Tips , Sex

Tags: sexual wellness, sex, self empowerment, self care, orgasm

Author: Amara Purlle

by Amara Purlle

What are our lives roughly 70% of the time, if not Chaotic? Such is the plight of the modern woman. Our seemingly Sisyphean attempts at maintaining a work/life balance might have us sitting in a combusting kitchen like the “This is Fine” dog. We juggle so many things, and we usually find ways to restore the expended energy so we can continue juggling day after day. But we don’t always tend to the energy that needs restoring the most. Set aside all things on the daily battlefront for a second, and let’s talk about sex. Are you having it? Is it good? Can it be better? More specifically, let’s talk about the Big O—how are your Orgasms?
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Playing with Matches: Online vs. Offline Dating

Posted: September 18, 2017

Categories: Dating, Tips , Relationships, Sex

Tags: tinder, sex, scruff, online, okcupid, mutual growth, lifestyle, hinge, grindr, dating, bumble

Author: Amara Purlle

by Amara Purlle

It's a meat market out there. I grew up in an analog world. Achieving any genuine romantic connection through an app, I scoffed, would yield superficial results at best. On the other hand, with a lot of online dating, it’s easy enough to tell who’s looking for a random hook-up, who wants someone to nest with, and who’s open to grabbing a drink and seeing if anything progresses without any string-like attachments. Thus raiseth the questions: What works for you? What is your end goal? Is boredom reason enough to try and connect with someone? Which method is the most effective use of your time and energy?
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It's in the Bag: Essentials for Island Hopping

Posted: July 13, 2017

Categories: Tips , Sex Toys

Tags: vacation, travel, summer, self-pleasure, relationship tips, how-to, advice

Author: Shelley B Swish

by Jess at B Swish

Excuse me for stating the obvious, but catching sun rays on a tranquil island beach beats the hell out of catching them on the concrete streets of the urban jungle, even in California. One of our all-time favorite spots to island hop is along the shores of Greece. From Santorini with breathtaking sunsets to Mykonos with the friendliest hotel receptionists. Gorgeous beaches and amazing food… you just can’t go wrong! Whether you’re planning to sip cocktails on a beach or sailing from island to island, there are a handful of must-have items that every it-girl should carry with her while soaking up the sun.
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8 Tips for Traveling with Sex Toys

Posted: July 06, 2017

Categories: Pleasure, Tips , Self Care, Sex

Tags: vibrator, valentines day, travel, summer, sex positive, self-pleasure, relationship tips, how-to, advice

Author: Shelley B Swish

by Jess & Carol at B Swish

Summer’s here, and it’s time to travel for some adventure, relaxation and just-me time! Whatever the goal of your next vacation, don’t leave the mind-blowing sex off of the itinerary; according to recent studies, you’re more likely to be in the mood when you’re on the road. It doesn’t matter if you’re on the hunt for a holiday fling, flying solo or longing to deepen your relationship with a tried and true travel companion, a sex toy will make your experience that that much more ..memorable.. Check out our tips on packing the right sex for your trip!
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A Minimalist’s Gift Guide for the Bride-to-Be

Posted: June 03, 2017

Categories: Gift Guide, Tips , Sex Toys

Tags: wedding, vibrator, sexual wellness, sex, personal healing, magic wand, friends, erotic secrets, erotic presents, bride

Author: Shelley B Swish

by Jess & Carol at B Swish

When it comes to celebrating the transition from miss to matrimony, the one big question haunts every member on the "I-do Crew"… How much naughtiness is appropriate? Well, it all depends on your friend’s personality and attitude about sex, but in our opinion there’s a way to strike the perfect balance between lewd and lovely for every type of bride
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By Jess at B Swish

By Jess & Carol at B Swish

by Amara Purlle

by Jess & Carol at B Swish

by Amara Purlle

by Amara Purlle

by Jess at B Swish

by Jess & Carol at B Swish

by Jess & Carol at B Swish