If you’re big on sex, wellness and find personality quizzes fun, you may have already gone the path of self-discovery and have established your personality type as well as your favorite sex toy. But depending on the type of model used, there can be many ways to dig deeper into who you are and your specific sexual behaviors. While the widely-known Briggs-Meyer test has been used since the 1920s, the new millennium has unveiled a new technique that includes 9 basic personality types based on a person’s unique ways of relating to the world. The Enneagram accurately and clearly describes why you think, feel and behave in particular ways based upon your core fears and core desires. Since there are so many sex toys to choose from, it may be time to try something different now that you’ve de-coded another side of yourself. Spice up your sex life by choosing a toy that aligns with who you really are deep inside.
Season’s greetings, y’all! It’s that wonderful time of the year again to don your gay apparel and start picking out gifts for your lover, partner, or closest kinky friends. If you’re stuck on ideas, we here at B Swish recommend pleasure products as a guaranteed treat for those who’ve been naughty or nice—hopefully both! But as there are so many products on the market, you may be wondering how to pare down the options and pick out something that will provide each of them a real endorphin-rush— and how do you do it if you’re on a budget?
✨Masturbation Month Special✨Masturbation is the best; it feels good, it’s good for you, and you can even use your orgasms to cast spells. What’s not to love? But like lovers, there’s an endless possibility of ways and reasons you may want to do or not do something a certain way. Sometimes you may want to do you quick and dirty. That’s hot. But sometimes you may wish to slow it down and add some meaning and intention to your self-love session. Also hot! And rather witchy, if we do say so ourselves. Sex magick, or raising sexual energy/orgasm to send to a desired purpose or intention, has been used by yogis, Pagans, occultists and pervs worldwide as a way to harness energy, heal, honor, transcend and create. Even if we’re not going to perform a whole sex magick ritual, we can take cues from these esoteric practices that offer us wisdom for connecting more deeply with our bodies. Inspired by erotic rituals, we’ve rounded up 9 ways to make your next masturbation session more magical.
Holy cow. It’s been a HECK of a year. We might just all need a magical Christmas/Hanukah/Winter Solstice to counteract 345-ish days of existential depression and consistent dread. We’re talking thoughtful presents! We’re talking New Year’s Eve nookie! We’re talking eggnog and volunteering at community Christmas dinners and good will toward (wo)men. The whole chestnut, preferably roasting on an open fire.
For now, it’s time to focus on the *presents* portion of the season. If anything in this life is clear it’s that intention is important. With that in mind please, take a gander at this holiday gift guide assembled by Jordana Lipsitz featuring some of her favorite sex positive Los Angeles artists.
