If you’re big on sex, wellness and find personality quizzes fun, you may have already gone the path of self-discovery and have established your personality type as well as your favorite sex toy. But depending on the type of model used, there can be many ways to dig deeper into who you are and your specific sexual behaviors. While the widely-known Briggs-Meyer test has been used since the 1920s, the new millennium has unveiled a new technique that includes 9 basic personality types based on a person’s unique ways of relating to the world. The Enneagram accurately and clearly describes why you think, feel and behave in particular ways based upon your core fears and core desires. Since there are so many sex toys to choose from, it may be time to try something different now that you’ve de-coded another side of yourself. Spice up your sex life by choosing a toy that aligns with who you really are deep inside.
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- Posted: March 18, 2020Categories: Dating, Gift Guide, Pleasure, Tips , Sex Ed, Relationships, LGBTQ, Sex, Sexuality, Sex ToysRead more »
By Jessica Buck
Provided consent is in place, taking your intimacy with someone to the next level means opening up a vulnerability that coincides with pleasure. We learn how to navigate this vulnerability with practice, but your first few times can be awkward and confusing, especially if you've received little to no true education on the physical and emotional logistics of "how to have sex." Let’s change that with a walk through of the basics of lesbian sex, because vulva on vulva action is worth the deep dive and frankly, it's the tits (pun intended). - Posted: December 01, 2019Read more »
By B Swish
Season’s greetings, y’all! It’s that wonderful time of the year again to don your gay apparel and start picking out gifts for your lover, partner, or closest kinky friends. If you’re stuck on ideas, we here at B Swish recommend pleasure products as a guaranteed treat for those who’ve been naughty or nice—hopefully both! But as there are so many products on the market, you may be wondering how to pare down the options and pick out something that will provide each of them a real endorphin-rush— and how do you do it if you’re on a budget?
- Posted: December 12, 2018Read more »
by Jordana Lipsitz
Holy cow. It’s been a HECK of a year. We might just all need a magical Christmas/Hanukah/Winter Solstice to counteract 345-ish days of existential depression and consistent dread. We’re talking thoughtful presents! We’re talking New Year’s Eve nookie! We’re talking eggnog and volunteering at community Christmas dinners and good will toward (wo)men. The whole chestnut, preferably roasting on an open fire.
For now, it’s time to focus on the *presents* portion of the season. If anything in this life is clear it’s that intention is important. With that in mind please, take a gander at this holiday gift guide assembled by Jordana Lipsitz featuring some of her favorite sex positive Los Angeles artists.
- Posted: November 29, 2018Read more »
by Ashley Inman
The holiday season is here already and whether you are hoping to make it onto Santa’s naughty list, craving an exciting exploration for the season, or just looking for something fun to play with as the creeping cold drives us further indoors then we have some suggestions for you.
- Posted: November 15, 2018Categories: Astrology, Dating, Erotica, Estoterica, Gift Guide, Pleasure, Tips , Sex, Fun Stuff, ZodiacRead more »
By Gabriela Herstik
We get it; sometimes you just wanna get off. In our opinion, sex toys are the perfect way to amp up your sex life, adding some extra good vibes whether you’re going solo or with a partner. Vibrators are a vagina-owning persons’ best friend, but with so many delicious and delectable options out there, the question isn’t if to start but where? We’ve turned to the cosmos for a little sexy inspiration, to help match up each zodiac sign with a vibrator that is sure to blow them away. Read on for your match made in heaven.
- Posted: November 08, 2017Read more »
by Jess & Carol at B Swish
'Tis the season to give, so why not gift some mind-blowing pleasure!
We've compiled a list of naughty gifts that will fill you and your lover with holiday cheer. - Posted: June 03, 2017Read more »
by Jess & Carol at B Swish
When it comes to celebrating the transition from miss to matrimony, the one big question haunts every member on the "I-do Crew"… How much naughtiness is appropriate? Well, it all depends on your friend’s personality and attitude about sex, but in our opinion there’s a way to strike the perfect balance between lewd and lovely for every type of bride